whoneedsfeminism:

-My best friend should not tell me, a fat woman, that “being fat is the worst thing a human being can be.”
-My best friend shouldn’t concern-troll me and tell me she’s “worried about my health” when my health issues have nothing to do with weight.
-My mother shouldn’t insist on choosing what I dress and refuse to let me, an adult, wear what I choose because it might not “fit right” or “look good/flattering” on me.
-My appearance is no one’s business but my own

Im going through the same thing, i have no idea what i want because of my family and the people around me. im told constantly by my mom and sisters and assholes that being fat is wrong, but i have no idea how i actual feel about my self because i have the thoughts of other people in my mind

whoneedsfeminism:

I’m told to calm down when I become passionate about topics and issues that affect me. Also it’s okay for even my own friends to complain and become angry, but tell me to calm down when I do the same thing.